BDSM

And now for something completely different . . .

Are you into BDSM, either as a lifestyle or for the occasional bit of kink with your partner?

If you are into it, what are you: dom/domme or sub?

Yes, in case you are wondering, I have played in that world, both as a sub and as a domina. It was never a lifestyle for me; instead, a diversion. For the fun of it. But I did learn a lot about the “community.”

No, in case you are wondering, it is not about sexual lust and perversion. It is about the exchange of power and the interplay that goes with it. Most of the people I interacted with are very intelligent, and I think BDSM is very much an intellectual pursuit for some.

So, how about you?

— Jillian

3 thoughts on “BDSM

  1. Yes as a professional couple we totally agree with your last paragraph. We have another professional partner we play with and for that person surrendering both power and control is quit erotic for that person but it definitely is a learning experience for all.

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  2. “This is a bingo” -Inglourious Basterds. But seriously, it’s like the Flying Wallendas, no?. That high wire is hard to ignore. But it begs the question: Is sex a “head thing”? I have problems with the chemistry frankly; meaning the Periodic Table. But don’t we all? – thinker

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  3. It’s not my cup of tea. Whatever goes on behind closed doors is your business. Each to their own. To me sex is not a head game, probably because we’ve been together for almost 21 years and are content and don’t care to experiment other lifestyles, sexual or not.

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