So, what is it with this obsession with gay sex in America? Why are so many religious people concerned about what goes on beyond closed doors between gay people? Why are religious people even thinking about other people’s sexual acts?

Inquiring minds need to know.

Why might a motel owner in, say, Indiana rent a room to two hetero buddies but refuse to rent a room to two gay guys, citing the religious freedom act?

What might that motel owner be thinking about when he turns away the gay couple?

I’m betting he’s thinking about sex acts — he’s thinking about what those two gay guys might be doing in that room, and how immoral he feels it is within the parameters of his belief system.

So, here’s my question: why is he so focused on other’s people sexual acts? Why does he care about what they do behind closed doors? Why is he even thinking about it?

The truth is, some religious people are obsessed with thoughts of other people’s sexual acts. They don’t see a gay couple as two people in love. In their minds, they see two guys having sex together, which seems to me to be a terrible invasion of their privacy, especially when it is used against them by declining services.

And even more worrisome is the fact that in the year 2015, some states are enacting legislation to encourage that sort of behaviour. Yes, go ahead: feel free to think about what that gay couple might be doing in that room. Turn them away if the thought of them having sex makes you sick.

It just doesn’t seem to occur to some of the legislators that obsessing about what other people are doing behind closed doors is sick.

Sure, I know they are justifying their actions by quoting their primitive, unsubstantiated religious belief systems. But those are glass houses that can be shattered with the tiniest pebble, and many people might point out that adults who believe in religious “fairy tales” are delusional, even mentally ill.

Thoughts?

— Jillian