One of the most common responses I get from people when I tell them that I have been exploring social nudism is something like this: “Ohmygawd, I wouldn’t bare my flabby body in public. I wouldn’t want anybody to see me naked.”

When I explain to them that nudism helps people to overcome body image hangups and remove social barriers that come with clothes, and that nudists really don’t care or even notice how your body looks, they are somewhat skeptical. Yet, many of these people are women who decry the perfect-body stereotypes. Some even describe themselves as feminists. But they still have body image problems.

Seems contradictory, yes?

Actually, I can relate to it, too, even though I have been in social nudism settings and have firsthand proof that no one cares about the extra bit of tummy I feel needs firming up. I’m still self-conscious about it — and am dieting and exercising in an attempt to flatten it again. But flat or not, it won’t keep me from basking naked in the sun on a clothing-optional beach — which is such a great feeling! — or attending a swim event with the Ottawa Naturists.

I don’t know if we ever overcome body image hangups, but I do know that social nudism can alleviate the problem somewhat, along with others. An entry in Wikipedia has this to say about it:

Many people say that being nude in groups makes them feel more accepted for their entire being — physical, intellectual and emotional. They say that they tend to be more accepted, in spite of differences in age, body shape, fitness, and health. Without clothing, one’s social rank is generally obscured. They report feeling more united with humanity, with less regard to a person’s wealth, position, nationality, race, and sex.”

Cheers

Jillian

7 responses to “Nudism/Naturism: Body image”

  1. nikhilananda Avatar

    and men worry about belly fat and HUGE penises…… oh well…… B|

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  2. Tim Oh Avatar
    Tim Oh

    Me thinks I do that the last reply best be kidding. Men and women are built the same.

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  3. homeclothesfree Avatar

    Reblogged this on home clothes free and commented:
    Body acceptance is one unexpected benefit of clothes free living

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  4. fernie Avatar
    fernie

    Thanks to the naturist world, I have no body issues anymore and the feeling of total freedom it brings with it is so wonderful.
    Fernie

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    cheridonna

    My husband says that he’s accepted himself so much he’s added to it. Jillian, I feel exactly as you do. I’m 130 lbs. & 5’4-1/2″. I have few if any wrinkles, no wings under my arms and in fairly good shape, yet I don’t feel I look it most of the time. My apprehension and lack of good body sense has improved greatly since 1985 when in 1967, I found nudism.

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    crowleycreations

    I think our wonderful lifestyle helps with certain issues about how we feel about ourselves.I think another ruin on a whole level is the media ,and I think its wrong and controlling how cosmetic companies expect females to look on a daily basis.And its the wrong approach,due to it only being a money making idea for these organisations,they dont care about the person,just the dollar or pound. It is nice to feel good and happy within oneself,but that should arrive naturally to you,and media is too artificall on many levels i believe.. AC

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